Viatara

It was only a matter of time. Us men have finally got a wonder drug for our sexual imperfections. Some men call it Viagra, other men call it God. I'm not sure how I feel about it, I have never taken the stuff myself. At this point in my life if I did take it, I would have one hell of a sore arm. If people asked why I was walking around holding my arm funny, I could claim that I have tennis elbow. Now woman have a drug that helps them achieve an orgasm. I know what you are thinking, no its not alcohol. It is called Viatara. It is called the wonder drug of our lifetime.

Viatara is a cream. You cream it to the clitoris... What happens is, it helps blood flow to the clitoris. A woman will enjoy a tingling feeling in her clitoris for about 30 minutes. You should take a little of the cream and rub it on her arm before trying it out on her clitoris. If it becomes itchy, don't use the product on her clitoris. Her arm might get red where you rubbed it in. This is natural and will only last for up to 15 minutes. After 15 minutes all the redness should be gone.

Use these directions when using Viatara on your partner:

1- Pump about three or four squirts and rub it into her clitoris.

2- Manually stimulate her clitoris.

3- You can orally stimulate her clitoris also. Viatara is non toxic. You might notice that it tastes like a very strong vitamin.

4- Penetrate her and rub her clitoris with your fingers. Play around with positions to see which ones is best for this.

5- Don't be upset that she is using a drug to feel good. Would she get upset if you took Viagra to achieve an orgasm? Probably not. She would know that you have a health problem and respect that you are doing something that will make both of your lives better.

Sex isn't everything fellas. We might want to think that it is, but it isn't. Just because you can't please her on your own doesn't mean that she doesn't deserved to be pleased. You need to understand that this can be a medical problem. She doesn't choose not to have an orgasm, there is something wrong with her.

I would much rather prefer her being open about not being able to have an orgasm and having to use Viatara than I would her using it in secret. What you run the risk of is having her use it alone. You won't be able to enjoy the effects of the drug or being able to watch her orgasm. Worse than that, this might actually cause you to not score. She might feel so alienated by your reaction to her problem, that she won't want to have sex with you. How would you feel if you had a health problem and your girlfriend wasn't caring about it? It would make you feel pretty damned uncomfortable!

Having an orgasm is good for our mental health as well. It releases chemicals in our brain that helps calm us. It helps relieve the day to day stresses that we face. We all know what an orgasm does for us. Imagine if you couldn't enjoy an orgasm? You would be one cranky son of a bitch!

Guys, don't sweat this. You really shouldn't. Enjoy this new miracle drug. You and your girlfriend will get more out of sex if you do!

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Virginity

The hip thing these days it seems is for women to call themselves virgins. I don't really understand this, because very few of them are actually virgins. I think women are trying to win back their dignity. They want to seem as pure sugar while they lay on their backs for every Tom, Dick, and Harry. This trend seems to me a bit far fetched, but hey, I thought getting your eye brow pierced was too. Finding a virgin is like finding a needle in a hay stack. They are like an animal on the endangered species list. I know they exist, but I'm not sure if I have ever seen one.

Sometimes it seems that you almost have to be like the Crocodile Hunter and go out and hunt one down. I don't know if it is worth the time, unless you are into such a beast...

There are many reasons why a woman might want to be a virgin. In this day and age of diseases, its not that bad of an idea. I have yet to have such great sex that it is worth dying for. I have never had sex with a Playboy Playmate, so maybe I don't know what I am talking about.

- By not having sex you don't have any risk of getting pregnant. Men these days don't seem to want to take care of their babies. Nothing would be worse than having a baby and being forced to work at a fast food joint to pay the bills. Being a single mother is tough these days and I don't blame them for not wanting to take that chance. It is hard enough to live on your own, let alone have to worry about kids.

- Some women may choose not to have sex for religious reasons. This is probably the number one reason why women stay virgins. They believe that they aren't allowed to have sex until they are married. I went to church when I was a teenager and during this time a lot of girls in the church were having sex. I guess some people practice this, while others just claim that they do.

- There is the type of woman who claims she is a virgin but yet will give you oral sex. She will allow you to stick your fingers in her love cave and get them stinky. She does this so in her mind she is still a virgin, pure and clean.

I'm not sure that I would call someone who can toot your flute like they are playing in an orchestra a virgin. I guess this can help reduce the risk of catching a disease. Also, you don't run the risk of pregnancy. If she wants to toot your flute, let her play all the notes she wants.

The next bunch of virgins are the type that allow you to touch them, but not do anything else. She may allow you to feel her breasts or lick her nipples. If you are lucky she will cop a feel of your penis. That is about as far as it goes with her. She might eventually end up being like the 'virgins' who will toot your flute. I wouldn't count on it though.

This might sound odd, so make sure you are sitting down for this next one. Some 'virgins' enjoy anal sex. They feel since they aren't using their vagina's it really isn't sex. Anal sex is called anal sex for a reason, because it is sex. Just like oral sex is sex. I have no idea why a woman thinks that if she spreads her cheeks, she is still a virgin. I guess it doesn't matter in the long run. All that matters if you can get some of the sweet anal love canal. I won't argue if she thinks this will keep her a virgin.

Sometimes when a woman hasn't had sex in a while, the vagina can shrink to its normal size. She can actually bleed the first time she has sex in a long, long time. Though she isn't really a virgin, she will seem like it. This is like the David Copperfield of virgins. There is some magic going on in that pussy cat.

Some women are what they call 'secondary virgins'. This really blows my mind. Basically they go out and screw everything thing that moves and decide they will be a virgin until they get married. I'm not sure how they can feel they are a virgin, but who am I to understand anything about a woman. I think this usually happens after a woman has a religious experience and decides that she will take the plunge again after she is married.

Why is this so important? To a man, he could care less really. Getting to lay a virgin is like winning a world series, but after a certain age you realize that your chances of this is slim. Personally, I think as you get older it is no longer an issue. You want a woman who can rock your world in bed, not someone who has never done anything before. Other than not having to worry about disease, to me and probably most men, this whole virgin thing is plain stupid.

The reason why some women are so obsessed about this is, they want to remain pure. Their virginity is the only thing that they see as making them pure and clean. They can talk like a sailor who has had too many beers, but yet if that precious tuna canal hasn't been explored, they are pure as can be.

I am amazed that this is still an issue. After all of the women's rights stuff in the 1960's, I would have figured this was long gone. I guess I am wrong. If this confuses you as much as it does me, then just leave it alone. If your woman is claiming she is a virgin, but yet has screwed the High school football team, I would leave her be. She is more than likely a nut case and needs to be avoided.

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Watching Porn

Women hate to see their men stare at other women. That is why most of us guys have to look at porn in secret. They get too jealous at us looking at other women. So, we jack off in private and they get mad at that too. They get mad at the idea that we are having any kind of pleasure that doesn't involve them. Sometimes I have wondered if this is just another attempt to control us. On the other hand, I know that it is. When you turn on the television, you see a ton of different programming. You can watch soaps, sports, talk shows, anything you can imagine. This is true with porn as well.

These tend to be the type of movies that you fast forward to the sex scenes.

If your woman is skeptical about porn, I would go with one of these types of movies. She will enjoy the content of it, while you enjoy the sex scenes. Sometimes in life you have to give to receive.

I think some women don't like porn because it makes them feel uneasy about themselves. They see you going ape shit about a woman who has perfect breasts and a nice round ass. They see your penis get hard super fast looking at this woman compared to when you are in bed with her.

I think men would get upset if women were the same way. Luckily, women aren't as much into porn as we are. Or we would all sound like a pussy and complain like our girlfriends do.

If your woman likes any kind of porn, great. Enjoy it with her. It will help you enjoy your sex life more. If she doesn't like porn, try and see if she has a fetish she would like to explore. Maybe she would like to see some guys with big dicks get it on or something. That isn't as bad as it sounds. If she is into something like guys with really big dicks, just makes sure you find some that are having sex with women you find attractive. This way you both win.

There is an increasing market for female porn viewers. I have seen many women go to the adult bookstore in my area to buy things. They all might not be buying porn movies, but the fact that they are going into such a place tends to show they are becoming more open.

I used to know a woman who loved watching gay porn. Before you spit out your morning coffee, think about it. We enjoy seeing two women go at it, why wouldn't women enjoy watching gay men have sex? I know that seeing two gay men have sex can curdle the milk in your morning coffee and make your penis more limp than a worm on a sidewalk, but think about it. If you want her to watch those hot lesbians go at it, why not give and take a little. If she gets turned on, maybe she will want you to go down on her while she watches it. If that is the case, you won't have to watch any of it. All you will be focusing on will be her canal du stink.

Porn can be a great way to spice up your sex life. On the other hand, it can ruin you. There are plenty of people in this world who are addicted to porn. That's right, they are addicted to it like a drug. I don't know if they shake if they haven't wacked it to a porn movie lately, but I think you get the drift.

If you find that you are addicted to porn or can become addicted to it, I would suggest that you stay away from it. It will do nothing but harm you in the long run. There are support groups for people who are addicted to porn. I know that the whole idea of being addicted to porn seems weird. It is like someone becoming addicted to hot chocolate. How could anyone become addicted to such a great thing?

Like most things when it comes to sexuality, I wouldn't force her to enjoy your love of porn. That will do nothing but make her hate it more in the long run. Instead, introduce it slowly and see how she responds. I would go with some soft core stuff. I wouldn't rush right into a gang bang movie or a bukakke movie right away. That will turn her off in a second.

If she strongly opposes you looking at porn, well, look at it while she isn't there. Make sure that your computer doesn't leave any tracks behind that you have been looking at porn. Make sure if you are watching a porn tape, that you take the tape out of the VCR. Nothing would piss her off more than to turn on the VCR thinking that she is going to watch her favorite soap that she taped while she was away, only to find two big breasted women enjoying a bit of lesbianism.

Like most things in life, moderation is the key. Don't over due it. If she sees that you want to watch porn every time you have sex, she will think that she can't arouse you. If that happens, watch out. You won't get laid for a long, long time. Then you will have to look at porn when you are horny!

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Female Orgasm Again

Let's face it - most guys have experienced orgasm. In fact, most experience it without a partner by their mid-teens. Something you might not know is that not all women experience orgasm at all, and even less during intercourse. For a variety of reasons, many women do not masturbate. The clitoris does not make its presence felt as does the penis, and upon reaching sexual maturity, the female body does not experience erections or wet dreams. A lot has been said about the female orgasm. One thing of which you can be certain is that a guy who knows a lot about getting his parters off is a guy who will have his sexual partners eagerly coming back for more.
Women need more
Unlike most men, who find themselves excited when seeing an attractive nude female body, very few women are not triggered by seeing a nude male. And seeing a close-up of genitals is very unlikely to excite any woman. They're just different that way, both genetically and culturally. No doubt that is why men spend so much time at strip clubs, where strip shows for women are more of a novelty. This is also why there are not more nude male magazines for women. Women need mental stimulation to achieve orgasm - especially their first time. Every woman is different in what exactly turns them on, but a lot of women also require a feeling of connection with their partner.

Whether or not your partner has come before or not, it is usually not as easy for women to experience an orgasm. It takes an average of twenty minutes for a woman to reach orgasm, and interruption in her mood can completely derail this process. Sure, some girls can come in a few minutes, but they are not the norm.

A lot of people ask the question "who is responsible for the woman's orgasm?" Ultimately both partners are probably responsible. Let's face it - guys aren't built the same, and if women keep them guessing about what to do, it may not get done right. On the other hand, a lot of men seem to feel that sticking their penis in their partner should be enough. The truth is that it very rarely is enough, and the men that believe this are usually guilty of wilful ignorance.

Meet the clitoris
The primary trigger for most female orgasms is the clitoris, a small nub of flesh outside and just to the front of the vagina. In many intercourse positions, the clitoris is not touched in any way, making orgasm literally impossible for most women. For most women to come during intercourse, there must be some contact with the clitoris. In most cases, this can easily be achieved by the man's pubic bone. Even easier, either the man or the woman can gently masturbate the woman by lightly rapidly rubbing her clitoris only after she is already excited. The main function of foreplay is to get the partners excited and to allow the female to lubricate. Many men who rush through foreplay because they are anxious to fuck miss part of the point - it takes a woman longer to become excited. If you routinely rush your partners through foreplay, they will not be excited, will very rarely if ever have orgasms with you, and will not look forward to more sex with you with a sense of anticipation.

For women who are uncomfortable with masturbation, a vibrator can be held on the clitoris. Also a stream of water from a bathtub or hot tub can be a great way for a woman to come.

The tongues have it
Most women's favourite sexual activity is not intercourse, it is cunnilingus - pussy eating. The softer, smooth surface of the tongue is very well suited to the very sensitive clitoris. Where fingers can irritate, your tongue is a perfect tool to bring your partner to bliss and keep her there. If you want your partners to come back for more, remember to slow down the foreplay so they're ready when you are, and make sure that they are satisfied as well as you are... And your partners will come back for more!

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Women Who Fake

"I have been married for 20 years. My wife just told me that she has never experienced an orgasm when we were together, but she didn't tell me because she didn't want to hurt my feelings. I don't know what to think. I love my wife, but she's been hiding this from me for more than 20 years! Why wouldn't she just tell me?" A lot of women fake orgasm. Some women in their 40's or 50's have been faking with their husbands for the entire duration of their marriages. Almost every woman has faked it at least a time or two. Which means that almost every man has experienced a woman orgasming who wasn't...

Why do women fake?

Some do it to avoid disappointing their partner. Some women wish to avoid continued intercourse, and fake orgasm to bring things to a conclusion. A lot of women are given the message that they are "less than" women if they do not have an orgasm. Some women realize that their partner is really trying and want to reward his efforts even though they didn't come.

Some women are afraid of damaging their partner's ego... Let's face it, some men DO feel mighty sensitive if his partner doesn't come.

Can a man tell if a woman fakes an orgasm?

The best way to tell if a woman has faked an orgasm is by the way she acts afterwards. Women usually take a couple minutes to "come down" after good sex and an orgasm. If the woman you're with is immediately peppy and full of energy, she might be faking it.

Most women like to cuddle after sex, but a woman who does not orgasm often does not feel as cuddly. In fact, she's often rather energetic at a time where all that energy does not make sense - right after you made love. She may want to make coffee, or do a little cleaning. She will not feel close with you, and she won't feel relaxed.

As sexual tension builds, so does adrenaline. When we orgasm, the body releases chemicals that relax the tension. That is why men often fall asleep, and women seem dazed and dreamy right afterwards. A man or woman who has felt sexual tension build and has not experienced release will still be under the influence of the adrenaline.

"Was it good for you?"

Paradoxically enough, if you're not sure if your partner really came, and you ask her "honey, was it good for you?", you will often only irritate her. Even worse would be to ask her "Did you come?" We all like to feel that our partners are paying attention to what we're feeling and experiencing in sex. It is harder to read women because their orgasms do not include ejaculation - no woman needs to ask "honey, did you come?" because she knows he did.

Although communication is the key to resolving this situation, it often never gets addressed.
For one thing, a lot of men are very sensitive about their bedroom skills, and are likely to respond with defensiveness or anger when told that their partner did not orgasm. These men often either blame the woman ("you're not woman enough") or simply make sure she knows that it isn't his fault by making regrettable statements ("my OTHER partners had no complaints").

If your partners are comfortable enough with you, you can determine more of what they really feel. But if you want your partners to trust you enough to communicate, you must be careful not to belittle or blame. Remember that it is harder for a woman to achieve orgasm, and that this is not your fault. Most likely she does not think it is your fault, either. She just feels sort of let down.

What can I do?

You can make yourself an accessible person to your partners. Make sure that you never say insulting or belittling things to them. You can simply tell them that you DO care how they feel but you cannot always tell if they have had an orgasm. Let them know that you will be more than happy to do whatever will make it easier to come, and that if they don't fake it, it would help you to know what they do and don't like. Point out that if they DO fake it, and if you can't tell, it doesn't mean you don't care but it DOES mean that you won't know.

If it's something as simple as taking more time, you're home free. Just extend the foreplay.
If it's that she needs a different position, or only experiences orgasms with oral sex, that is certainly something you can work on.

Always let your partners know that you want them to experience as much pleasure as you do,
and that you would like to know what you do that feels good, or that they don't care for. Let
them know that you won't have hurt feelings, and it will help you to please them.

If a woman you're with fakes it after you have sincerely communicated this to her, it is her issue and not anything to do with you.
If you find sex a way to share and communicate pleasure, and your partners know this, it should be good every time, even if one of you doesn't always orgasm.

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Working With Sex

Why go work out in the gym all day and come home too tired to have sex? Why not skip a day at the gym and work out in bed? I know what you are thinking, it can't be the same kind of work out, no it can't be. It is a better kind of work out! Who wouldn't love to work out and have an orgasm too!? I know that your lover enjoys those long sensual times in the bed, but they like a twist on things too. There are ways other than pounding the hell out of her that you can get a good work out. Of course, that is a good work out. I have known a lot of women in bed who loved to be pounded. They like it when you go fast and hard.

The faster the better. I would watch how hard you do it, that can hurt. Here we will suggest some positions that you can try. I would only suggest that you try these if you are in very good shape. If you aren't, you could end up hurting yourself. Even worse, you could end up hurting your lover.

If your lover is at least 65 pounds lighter than you, this is a fun one. While standing, lift your woman by her thighs. Have her wrap her legs around your waist. Bend your knees slightly and keep your arms around her waist. Before you know it, you will be gaining strength and stamina. This exercises your biceps. Standing up will exercise your hamstrings.
Equivalent in gym:
Bicep curls
Squats or lunges

Again, for this one, you will also be standing up. Find a flat surface that you can lay her down on. This surface should be as high as your pelvis. I would suggest a table top.
Have her spread her legs on the table. You should insert your penis as if you were attempting to do a missionary position. This position will drive both of you mad. This will feel great for both of you. You can take a break and stand on the balls of your feet if you like. Make sure you don't get too relaxed and go limp.
What are you working out?
Standing on your toes will work your calves.
Resting on your feet will work your hamstrings.
Equivalent in gym:
Calf raises
Squats or lunges

Having her be on top is a great way to work out. Though I have to say, that when my woman is on top, the last thing I am thinking about is getting a good work out. Well, that isn't all true, I think of my penis that is getting worked out. Have her ride you both go into pure ecstasy. While she is doing this, lift your head from whatever surface it is on. Kind of like how you would if you were doing sit ups. You will feel the burn in no time if you haven't worked out in awhile. Try not to pull any muscles in your neck. Not only would this be embarrassing, but it hurts like hell. She will think you are about to orgasm, you will be in so much pain you will think you are going to go nuts.
What are you working out?
Your abs?
Equivalent in gym:
Crunches

Again, you will need your woman to be on top. It is easy to be spoiled when your lover is on top all the time. While she is on top, only your shoulders and feet should be touching the ground. Arch your back so are in a 90 degree angle. This is a great work out and you will feel it in no time.
What are you working?
Your gluteus maximums (your ass)
Your hamstrings
Equivalent in gym:
Squats

Lunges
These are just a few of the work outs you can do in bed. If you don't feel like going to the gym one day, this is a great way to excesses. I wouldn't suggest that you do it very often. Once a week max for this type of love making. If you do it more than this, you will turn your love making into work. That is when sex becomes.

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